<?xml version="1.0" encoding="UTF-8"?><rss xmlns:dc="http://purl.org/dc/elements/1.1/" xmlns:content="http://purl.org/rss/1.0/modules/content/" xmlns:atom="http://www.w3.org/2005/Atom" version="2.0"><channel><title><![CDATA[My Site 1]]></title><description><![CDATA[My Site 1]]></description><link>https://www.toughlove.org.nz/blog</link><generator>RSS for Node</generator><lastBuildDate>Sat, 26 Sep 2026 02:12:15 GMT</lastBuildDate><atom:link href="https://www.toughlove.org.nz/blog-feed.xml" rel="self" type="application/rss+xml"/><item><title><![CDATA[Should social media be banned for children under a certain age?]]></title><description><![CDATA[There’s been a lot of discussion lately about restricting children’s access to social media, and it’s the kind of topic that tends to bring out very strong opinions. For some parents, the idea of a ban might feel like a relief. Social media can bring pressure, comparison, drama, exposure to content children may not be ready for, and endless battles over who is allowed what. A legal age restriction could take some of that pressure off families, especially when the argument is, “But everyone...]]></description><link>https://www.toughlove.org.nz/post/tlnz-blog-3</link><guid isPermaLink="false">698b091d3faa9e439bee0b2b</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 10:32:42 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_18616dfb7e174f93a0285a439465b36c~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>secretary67922</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Where did that behaviour come from?]]></title><description><![CDATA[Have you ever looked at your child and thought, “Where the heck did that behaviour come from?” Often the problem showing up inside your home did not actually start there. Children of all ages are influenced by the world around them. Their friends, school, social media, gaming, YouTube, other families, and whatever happens to be considered "normal" in their little world can all shape how they behave. Then suddenly, something that began outside the family becomes a family problem. Your child...]]></description><link>https://www.toughlove.org.nz/post/tlnz-blog-2</link><guid isPermaLink="false">698b087a3faa9e439bee0964</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 10:31:43 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/nsplsh_53bd8659adba45c69b4db3c59beb03c8~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>secretary67922</dc:creator></item><item><title><![CDATA[Encouraging good behaviour.]]></title><description><![CDATA[We all want our kids to grow up happy and confident, right? One of the best ways to help guide our primary school-aged kiddos is through positive reinforcement. It’s all about focusing on the behaviours we want to see more of and giving our kids that extra boost of self-esteem. Here are a few simple and fun ways to encourage positive behaviour:  Praise with Purpose: Instead of the usual "Good job," try something more specific, like "I love how you helped clean up your toys without being...]]></description><link>https://www.toughlove.org.nz/post/tlnz-blog</link><guid isPermaLink="false">698b07505412b49a8b59fdc4</guid><pubDate>Tue, 10 Feb 2026 10:25:34 GMT</pubDate><enclosure url="https://static.wixstatic.com/media/11062b_fec8e08f3a104fceb5a60e0d3b9ba040~mv2.jpg/v1/fit/w_1000,h_1000,al_c,q_80/file.png" length="0" type="image/png"/><dc:creator>secretary67922</dc:creator></item></channel></rss>